Truer words have ne'r been spoken. If anyone in my family is straight-forward, honest, and at times bluntly so - it's me. Yet there are those who still doubt me when I say, "it's not about you."
Again, if this applies to you - check yourself. There seems to be many of you of late, so you are not alone.
Anyone who knows me - not knows of me, knows my name, or thinks they know me - truly knows me can verify that if you think it's about you then you're probably wrong. I'm not a person who leaves issues to doubt. I will let you KNOW when it's about you.
Those of you who feel the guilty or angry need to respond, reply, retort, ect. - DON'T. I'm not leaving this open for discussion. Why? Because this is about ME and my ability to vent and let go. This is for my sanity and my own ability to move on. At this point your issues with whatever problems you have with me are of no concern. You have sealed your fate as far as I'm concerned and this is simply my way of once again assuring you that if or when I do have issue/problems with you I will come to you and handle it responsibly, appropriately, and probably with more respect than you've ever shown me. I may occasionally vent in vagueness or pick at others and you perceive that it's about you - but if it were I can promise that you'd KNOW and the likelihood that I would call you out and discuss the topic in a public forum is slim to not happening. Chances are I have already personally addressed it with you or have plans to do so at an appropriate time and place. I am not one to hold things in for extended periods. I did that once and it proved unhealthy. You're not worth my health and sanity. I reserve that for the people who actually give a damn.
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